Anal orgasm – find another exciting way to blow her mind!
For a woman, it can be one of the naughtiest things she can do. And thus, it can be exciting as hell.
Some women would never ever do anal, no matter what. Other women would jump on the opportunity. But for most women, they are sitting on the fence and just need a little “gentle loving inducement.”
How to make a woman anal orgasm?
The important thing to remember is that once she states her objection to the act, it makes it immensely difficult to accomplish. You absolutely must avoid anything that will alarm her objections to entering the “exit only.”
You will perform a process of steps that demonstrate to her subconscious mind the pleasures of anal excitation without alarming her conscious mind’s objections to the “dirty deed.”
Begin with stimulation of the BACK of the deep spot. Have her lie on her back. Use lots of lubricant. With your palm facing down, use your middle finger to go in as deep as possible. Press your curled fingers hard against her to make sure you get your middle finger in as
deep as possible. If you use enough lubricant on your hand, your curled fingers will not pull on or irritate her skin. Curl the tip of your middle finger in a “come hither” manner as if to press hard against her tail bone. Repeat.
At this point, you are going to wish you worked out your forearms more often.
On another night, get her on her hands and knees and again stimulate the back of her deep spot until orgasm. This makes her more familiar with that type of orgasm in that position, the “doggy style” position.
Again rub the back of her deep spot. When she starts getting close to her orgasm, use your well lubricated pinky finger of your other hand and lightly press your pinky finger against her anus. Make sure there is lots of lubricant on her anus.
When she is about to come, press just the tip of your pinky finger into her anus. If she objects, stop stimulating her deep spot and assure her that you will be gentle, but do NOT remove your finger. Return to the stimulation of her deep spot. Since she is so close, that should be motivation enough for her to concentrate on her vaginal stimulation. Continue the stimulation until she orgasms. At the height of her orgasm, slowly remove your pinky. This associates anal penetration to her orgasm.
The next night, do this again. Rub the back of her deep spot. But this time, slide your pinky in when she starts getting aroused, don’t wait until she is close. And then, when she starts getting close, slide your pinky in up to the second joint. And just before she orgasms,
gently slide your pinky out and back into her anus a few times. This associates sliding in her anus to her orgasm.
To continue further, you are going to have to start to get her conscious mind engaged. But it must be done in such a way as to not raise an objection. This can be accomplished in a “hypothetical” situation, a situation that is possible, but that she wouldn’t actually do.
Or, in other words, a fantasy.
Fantasy is the perfect scenario for her “experiencing” anal sex and anal orgasm without actually “doing” it. Once she experiences it in her mind, it will be much easier for her to experience it later “for real.”
Narrate a fantasy to her about how she is a very proper woman, but sometimes she is so very naughty. She is such a naughty little girl because she wants to get fucked so badly. And it makes her even more excited because she is being very naughty.
Change the fantasy to being about how she is so naughty that she wants to get even naughtier. She wants to get fucked in the ass. Carefully slide the tip of your middle finger into her anus.
Tell her: “You are so naughty and you are so turned on, because you fantasize about me fucking you in the ass. You would never do that, but you get so turned on about the thought of me fucking you in the ass. You are being so naughty, because you are thinking such naughty thoughts. You get so fucking hot thinking about me fucking you hard in the ass.”
“You fantasize about me fucking you hard up the ass and having anal orgasm. You get so fucking turned on thinking about my hard cock ramming your ass hard.”
So long as it’s just a fantasy, she can go along with it. But because it is a fantasy, she must vividly imagine what you narrate.
If her arousal increases, she is responding well to the anal stimulation. Slow down the clitoral stimulation and increase the anal stimulation.
The anal orgasm will blow her mind. She will not know exactly “how” she came, but she will know that she just had the most remarkable orgasm of her life.
Whenever you take anything out of her anus, it is VERY important that you tell her to relax. She must NOT tighten up. That will make things much more difficult. It will make her irritated with it.
And this is very important: anything you take out of her anus, do NOT put into her vagina. There will be bacteria that will cause very serious vaginal infections.
Lube up the butt plug and her anus liberally. Then slowly insert the plug. Then begin standard doggy style intercourse. Continue intercourse while pressing lightly on the butt plug. Her orgasm will incorporate the sensation of the butt plug with intercourse.
Later, when in bed, have her lie on her back. Lube up her vagina and anus well. Then go down on her while you have your finger in her anus and give her a clitoral orgasm.
Tell her to get on her hands and knees. Lube up her ass and lube up your cock and simply tell her in a confident voice that you are going to fuck her in the ass.
After she has had an amazing anal orgasm, it is extremely important that you then hold her closely and lovingly and give her lots of emotional intimacy. You absolutely must affirm her as a person, as a proper woman.
It would be advisable to not talk about the act outside of the bedroom, unless she brings it up. What happens in the bedroom is your and her little secret.
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